SOWING THE SEEDS OF MARITAL TURBULENCE
Farmers who sow seeds know that they generally harvest more than they sow. The high spate of marital turbulence that is prevalent in most homes today can be traced to evil seeds that were sown at one time or the other. You must learn how to recognize the consequences of evil acts. A lot of people are in the woods when it comes to the issue of recognizing the effects of evil seeds.
Do you know that all forms of marital turbulence are direct results of what men and women do with impunity? In this chapter we shall take a closer look at the factors that are responsible for marital turbulence. Before we go into details, let me ask you certain questions.
Have you ever noticed that all the women in your family have serious problems? Do they have problems getting married or having a stable home? Perhaps there was one Abimelech in your father’s house, either present or past, who innocently or forcefully deprived another man of his wife.
Troubles might be happening now as a result of this grave sin. Perhaps in your family line, there was a woman who stole a husband that was not supposed to be hers and now men and women are suffering terrible consequences for the sin committed in the past.
There are many angles to this aspect of stolen wives or stolen husbands as regards the travails of the modern man. How does it concern us today? How can we diagnose specific acts which boarder on stealing a wife or a husband?
When a man professes to marry a woman without engagement, payment of dowry and formal marriage
How can a man and a woman begin to live together without going through laid down procedures? Such a man in question is a thief. He had stolen a whole human being. By definition, the children born as a result of such a relationship are bastards. The man is writing letters to serious troubles, which generally happen to those who steal wives.
You might not have gotten involved in such wickedness, but if someone happened to have been involved in that kind of act in your family lineage, the person has programmed trouble for all the members of the family. That may be the cause of your present sufferings.
When you are sleeping with or befriending a man or woman, and this person is not your ordained wife or husband, then you are a thief.
When someone is using prophetic manifestations, money or position to win a man or a woman, then such a person is a thief
All those who practise “boy-friend” and “girl-friend” affairs fall under this category because marriage is for men and women and not for boys and girls.
If the only form of marriage you did as a wife or husband was court marriage without pastoral blessings, you are a thief.
Although the two of you might claim that you are born-again and even baptized in the Holy Ghost, you are guilty. Christian marriage is not complete without a priest or a pastor standing to pronounce blessings on it.
When you are an expert at committing adultery with the opposite sex, then you are a thief.
Again, if you are a man or a woman and you are an expert at imagining sexual relationships with men or women, then you are a thief.
When there is someone in your lineage who stole a wife or husband, the punishment will flow to you even if you are innocent.
Marital unfaithfulness in form of adultery of any kind is stealing.
Any one who gets involved is writing letters to the kind of plagues king pharaoh, king Abimelech and king David suffered.
There are many people who attend gospel churches and yet, they are living in chronic adultery. These people are writing letters to the punishment meted to pharaoh, Abimelech and David.
Writing love letters to a married man or woman signifies that you are involved in stealing another person’s husband or wife.
In the modern sense, you may not be writing letters but you may get involved with sending text messages through mobile phones, you are a thief.
All forms of polygamy is called massive stealing.
This is why global peace is difficult to attain. Many have married wives or husbands that were not theirs and because these people have deprived others of their right partners there is confusion all over the place.
Every act of dis-virgining a woman who is not your wife is a serious spiritual transaction and covenant.
To be frank, this is a form of blood covenant. If eventually the person who was disvirgined was not married by the person who disvirgined her, stealing has taken place. A lot of young men and women are guilty of this offence today.
The purchase of all forms of presents to seduce a man or woman signifies that you are a thief.
When you deprive another person of the full love or attention of his or her rightful husband or wife by your interference, then you are a thief. This means that all strange women are thieves.
If anyone has raped a woman before either as a so-called Christian or as an armed robber, the position of the Bible is that he must marry the woman. If you raped somebody or disvirgined the
person but you eventually marry another person, then you are a thief. The full explanation can be found in Deuteronomy q chapter 22.
The Bible’s view on a person who sleeps with another lady which results in pregnancy either accidental or not is that the two people involved in this sin of fornication must marry themselves as husband and wife.
If a man goes ahead to abandon such a lady to marry another on the ground that he is now born-again and that he did it in ignorance while he was in the secondary school then, he is a thief.
If a Christian marries an unbeliever according to Malachi chapter 2:11-12, all you have done is that you have succeeded in stealing a wife from the devil, and the devil will not take it lightly with you. Inadvertently, the devil becomes such a person’s father-in-law.
When someone gets married to a widow within a year after her husband died, he is a thief.
There was a case that the husband died in January and by March, another man had surfaced to marry the wife. This new husband happened to be the former husband’s best friend. The man was a thief. It means before the man died, they had been having an affaire
When you make use of unholy methods to capture the fiancee of another person, then you are a thief.
For example, if the friend of the bride-to-be uses unholy means to snatch away the husband-to-be. then she is a robber.
There are people who want to become nationalized or stay abroad for a long time.
These people then go and marry a citizen of the country of their interest in order to achieve their aims. These sets of people are thieves.
When a person looks for charms or fetish powers to attract marital interest of another person, then that person is a thief.
There was a man who used to eat pepper soup and all kinds of things in a woman’s house. In the process, he abandoned his wife. That man was a thief. Most of the time, the woman used to take it upon herself to serve the soup. But on one occasion, the woman went to the toilet and the man had to take the soup himself. He put the long spoon in to the pot and as he raised the spoon; he brought out a pant out of the soup!
So, the man has been eating soup cooked with a woman’s pant. The woman who cooked that kind of soup was a thief.
If you were involved in that kind of act before you were born-again, you are a thief.
If your parents were involved with the problem of stolen wife and stolen husband, it will definitely affect your life. This is a very serious matter.
If as a young lady, you are collecting money from a rich man because you want to finance your education.
If you are twenty years old while the man is fifty-five, if you now finish you studies and you say “I cannot marry the old man.”
But meanwhile, you have used his money to train yourself and then you went to marry someone else, the person who marries you, is a thief and you are a robber too.
A fetish priest might say; “if I cure this particular woman, I would marry her.” All such prophets and fetish priests are thieves. If you have them in your lineage then you ought to pray.
Finally, if a woman runs away from her husband’s house because of poverty, to go and marry someone whom she claims is richer, the man who marries the wife of the poor man is in trouble because God would fight back.
A curse will come into play.
SOLUTIONS
What then are the practical steps to betaken in order to solve the problems described above?
Restitute, where it is possible.
But, most of the time restitution may be impossible because those who caused such problems might have died. What could be done is to remove the umbrella from your head, so that these curses might be rolled away.
Wage war against the powers behind it.
The next thing to do is to wage war against the power behind the stolen wife or the stolen husband in order to recover all the things, which the spirit behind the stolen wife and stolen husband have taken away.
The people who are free from the curse of stolen wives or stolen husbands are those who are sure that their ancestors, their fathers, including themselves did a proper marriage. Such people are free and free indeed from this menace.
But, if you cannot even remember what your ancestors did and you discover that your own mother does not have any marriage certificate you must do something. Perhaps, she was selling in the night market and she was abducted and later forced to become your father’s wife. If so, you have prayers to pray and you have spiritual battles to face.
Some of the problems that follow these kinds of evil actions are unexplainable stress, marital distresses, gynaecological problems, plagues, men walking about like corpses, academic stagnancy, unfulfilled expectations, etc.
These will have effect on you sooner or later.
Brother, how did you marry your wife? Sister how did you get married? If the methods used were wrong then serious aggressive prayers are needed to amend the cracking walls.
Could it be that as a wife, before you married your husband, he used to come for another woman, but you used to make advances to him with your eyes. Then you must pray. If in the cause of your prayers you feel dizzy, yes it means the spirit of stolen wife or husband has affected you. It means you are concerned.
But the bottom line of it all is that you should surrender yourself to the Lordship of Christ before any prayer could be meaningful.
Are you making a decision to be born again? Do you want to be a candidate of breakthroughs? Pray this prayer of confession and surrender.
“Father, in the name of Jesus, I come before you today, come into my life in Jesus’ name, I pray” Amen.
Remember, Christian couples who before marriage, slept with one another are thieves.
Such people need to pray to receive those things which the enemy stole from them the day they slept with each other as unmarried partners.
PRAYER POINTS
- Every problem, from my father’s house, emanating from stolen wives or stolen husbands, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Anointing of the bastard of my father’s house, die, in the name of Jesus.
- My Father, if my father is not my father, deliver me by fire, in the name of Jesus.
The above prayers are ancestral in nature.
The next prayer points are directly personal in outlook.
- Confess your sins unto God if you are sure that you will not go back to those sins. But, if you will go back to them there is no need confessing them. If you confess them and still go back to them, then you are a trouble seeker.
- Every secret curse, working against my destiny, die in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, working against my marital life, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, working against my health, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, working against my potentials, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, working against my prosperity, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, introducing stagnancy into my life, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every secret curse, limiting my spiritual life, die, in the name of Jesus.
- Every plague, brought upon my family life, through stolen wife and husband, die, in the name of Jesus.
